3-5 about  confidentiality  is  provided  to  all  counseling customers  before  counseling  begins.  Confidentiality information  is  available   by   calling   the   FSC   and requesting to speak with any counselor about the privacy act in regard to FSC counseling services. Family Advocacy Program Child and spouse abuse are unacceptable and incompatible with high standards of professional and personal discipline. Abusive behavior by DON personnel destroys families, detracts from military performance, negatively affects the efficient functioning and morale of military units, and diminishes the reputation and prestige of the military service in the civilian community. —SECNAVINST 1752.3 Every  year  active-duty  members,  spouses,  and children die as a result of domestic violence. The Family Advocacy  Program  (FAP)  was  established  by  the Department of Defense to address issues relating to this social problem. The FAP is implemented worldwide on all military installations by every branch of the services. Spouse abuse and child abuse have a negative effect on military readiness, effectiveness, and good order and discipline. GOALS.—The five primary goals of the FAP are as follows: 1. Prevention 2. Victim safety and protection 3. Offender accountability 4. Rehabilitative education and counseling 5. Community accountability/responsibility for a consistent and appropriate response The FAP pursues these goals through prevention programs, identification of domestic violence, investigation of alleged incidents, reports to appropriate military   and   community   response   agencies,   and treatment of families identified. Commanding officers are ultimately responsible for victim safety and the successful implementation of the FAP within their commands. The FAP staff is located within each FSC. PETTY OFFICER RESPONSIBILITY.—Petty officers should be aware of the FAP and its resources. Further, petty officers are responsible to report all alleged cases of abuse or neglect to the family advocacy representative (FAR). As a representative of the military community, the FAR will coordinate case management and report to appropriate agencies. Family Home Care and Family Care Policy The demands of Navy life styles make parenthood challenging. By taking full advantage of the resources available,  parents  can  make  their  lives,  and  their children's lives, more rewarding and less stressful. Navy parents have more help available to them than ever before because of FSC programs and expanding child care options. FSCs provide information, referral, educational, and other counseling services designed to help parents and their children. Childcare is always a big concern—and often a big headache—for parents. The capacity of Navy-operated childcare facilities is not always enough for the number of children eligible to use them. The Family Home Care (FHC) Program allows spouses of Navy members to care for children of Navy personnel in government quarters. FHC serves over 30 commands stateside and overseas. Those who wish to open their homes for day care must complete training that  includes  cardiopulmonary  resuscitation  (CPR) instruction. Child care providers involved in the FHC Program must purchase insurance, which is available through the Navy Personnel Command (NAVPERSCOM) at a nominal fee. A professional monitor ensures that the childcare offered is of the highest quality by providing training, screening and background checks, and monthly visits to FHC homes. The nature of naval service dictates that members must be ready to deploy on short notice and be able to execute fully their military and professional duties. Planning to ensure the care of family members and dependents is of great value and is required of every service member. It is especially important for single members with dependents and members of dual military couples with dependents. Therefore, the Navy requires all single parents and dual military couples with children